HOW PARENTING INFLUENCES THE CHILD DEVELOPMENT?

"PARENTING....."

It is not a simple thing as where you can just feed your child and make them alive, BUT it is the only way to show how you grow up your child to face the society. Mostly the parents behaviors and manners automatically will strive the children so obviously strenuous effort is needed to upgrade the good qualities in them.

Every parents should connect with their kids through true empathy even if they cannot give them what they want, because there is a necessity to respect and validate their emotions. They should have boundaries while connections remaining as the priority!

Firstly, the child's whining, talking back, Interrupting, pinching a sibling, demanding a grown up to do things for them which they already know(like asking to feed them) these are just a few of the many ways children may seek attentions and often in the heat of these moments parents gets frustrated, however being frustrated doesn't gives a solution. Instead change the perspective of "attention-seeking as connection-seeking", where they enjoy and loved it from you. As the child behaves and act like their parents it is necessary for them to being a good role-model for their child, if they gets frustrated over a small things obviously the child will develop the same in few years. When it comes to parenting, there is hundreds of do's and do not's, when you became confident and educated in your parenting decisions you can easily influence your child in a good way.

 

"HOW YOU TREAT YOUR CHILD WILL DETERMINE HOW THEY TREAT THE REST OF THE WORLD AND THEMSELVES".

 

 Parents are the safest place for their kids, children won't typically act arrogant to other authority figures as they do with their parents. There is a connection and trust there that allows them to feel safe enough to crumble into parents arms. Disrespectful behaviour is usually misunderstood behaviour, when the kids are arrogant it is not a character defining moment because we all become arrogant at times. It is all about to normalize those feelings and model how to process emotions and offer grace as a parent. It is what the parenting is all about, this will make the child to love and follow them earnestly.

Some parents will think "Too much of love will spoil the child" which is totally nonsense and they think that it is a good parenting, but obviously "NOT". Let your children know everyday that you love them, they are special to you and that you appreciate them, because there's no danger of spoiling them with love. Your revelation of love towards them will make them to be loved by many others outside your family. Spoiling them is when parent gives them material things as a substitute for their time, attention and love.

Parental presence, love and their time.. nothing can substitute it, So it is simply not possible to spoil a child with love. Trusting and believing is the next important thing for kids other than love, because whenever your saying "NO" its like you are prohibiting them from experiencing a new thing. Your frustration and prohibition will make them vulnerable and also make them to lose hope on themselves. Parents trust is the only thing that influence their child into a superior and successful in their upcoming future.